Revive Her Drive…

RHD Woman In His ArmsGuys, if you’re in a relationship where the passion and connection have fizzled or even dried up, and you’re frustrated and angry, you’re not alone. Without even talking to you, I know what you’re going through and I know what your woman is feeling too.

Your sense of security, success and desirability as a man – it all goes out the window when she pulls away and closes you out.

It’s devastating to wake up one day and realize that you have no idea how to get your woman back — how to hold her again without her squirming away — how to penetrate her dark moods and lack of joy.

She’s not really telling you why she’s lost her sexual passion. Oh, she has her excuses, but in your heart of hearts you know there’s something more – and you know it has something to do with you.

So now you wonder… Do I have an affair? Am I doomed to no sex for the rest of my life? It’s crazy making! Nothing you do seems to work. She says things that don’t make sense like: ‘Maybe, you should think of having sex with someone else.” Or, “Sex just isn’t that important to me.”

If you’re committed to loving this woman, what do you do with that?

I’ve worked with hundreds of men and couples on this issue, and not only is it possible to turn a woman’s interest around – but it’s possible to have better sex and a deeper connection than you had initially.  The reason: It’s no mistake you fell into the trap you fell into together — because you didn’t have a sexual relationship that was sustainable for HER.

Here’s the good news: I am among a group of 12 Positive Seduction Experts who tackle this topic with heart and soul – and with potent tools that you won’t find in the mainstream marketplace. “Revive Her Drive” is a super, high-quality product, created by my friend, Susan Bratton, and us 12, top positive seduction experts.

Expect cutting edge wisdom that will open your mind anew, and when you apply the tools and practices, to see changes that will astonish you. I’m working with clients who are applying the wisdom and they can hardly believe the results.

Frankly, every woman on the planet wants this series to drop into your lap! While this product is for men in relationship, it so vividly validates women on so many levels (it’s like female porn!). Know that your partner will want to drink it in and eat it for breakfast.

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Coaching with Karen

Are you Satisfied?

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Most of us believe that it’s our partners’ job to please us in bed. So when the job doesn’t get done so well, and expectations go unmet, clearly you know who to blame. You probably don’t fire your lover, but you might withdraw your interest and withhold expressing exactly why. As you might have already discovered, this is a recipe for sexual disaster.

If your partner is in fact responsible for the mediocre sex and lack of connection you experience, that means that you are powerless to do anything about it. Your lack of satisfaction is being done to you. You are saying: I cannot change this. It’s not my fault. And thus, nothing will change.

When I work with couples who have stopped making love for a year, 5 or even 10, it’s always the same issue. They’re stuck in blame. It sounds like this: “She’s frigid.” He’s a “sex maniac.” “She doesn’t express pleasure.” “He doesn’t last long enough.”

Until each partner takes responsibility, nothing shifts.  Blame is a brilliant strategy if you want nothing at all to change.

On the other hand, if you want to get unstuck in your relationship you’ve got to ask yourself: What am I doing to contribute to our lack of connection and lovemaking? Really listen to what comes forward for you.

Then, if you can verbalize your part to your partner – and own your part – your partner will be willing to own hers or his. Then and only then, can you can make progress toward having that passionate sex you both want.

I always tell my clients, “You’re in the relationship you’re ready for.” In other words, it’s no mistake you’re having the challenges you’re having with intimacy. It’s simply what’s up for you to learn.

The question is: Will you own your challenges so that you can take that next step on the sexual rung — to experience a greater degree of pleasure and connection — or stay stuck in blame?

I suggest that you take 100 percent responsibility for what you’re going through in your relationship, and through that, you’ll discover  the power to make things change.

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