I like to say that how you make love is how you do everything. Think about it.
If you hold back, if you rush through, if you avoid deep engagement, isn’t this also how you are in the rest of your life?
Sexcess is about making love to your whole life! It’s about taking the most desirable qualities from Great Lovemaking (connection, passion, pleasure, openness, growth, joy) into the whole of how you live.
So imagine this: if you simply focused on the quality of your lovemaking, how that would affect everything you do! I’ve seen miracles happen when people open to lovemaking in a deeply connected way.
Want more money? Greater Joy? Make love more. You getting the theme here?
A sexcessful person makes love to life. There is no separation between how you make love and how you live, and this has to come out of making love.
You can do a bang up job at your work and it might affect your connection as a lover, it might not. But, be better in bed and it WILL affect work. It will affect earnings and quality of relationship. That’s the magic of lovemaking – it permeates everything – and the result is always, unequivocally, more love.
Karen Brody, copyright 2009. All rights reserved. For reprint permission, contact the author.


