Connecting = More Sex, Period

More SexWant to know how to get more sex?  Two years ago I interviewed 100 women to find out why they lost interest in sex in their long term relationships, and the conclusion was simple and fascinating.

Ninety-eight percent of the women interviewed explained that they lost interest when they felt the connection was lost.  When I asked how they defined connection, 98 percent said that they connect by way of talking and sharing feelings and experiences.

Probably not a huge surprise, guys. But if you have ignored this fact, and now find yourself wondering what happened and why there’s a gulf between you,  you might want to consider some heart to heart talking.

It’s not just talking, btw. These women described it as talking “about us.” Talking about a future, making plans, in other words “we” talk.” When you talk about the “we” a woman feels loved, cherished and closer to you, and feeling close equals feeling turned on.

By Karen Brody, All copyrights reserved, 2013. Please contact the author for permission to reprint this article.

One Response to “Connecting = More Sex, Period”

  1. Kasia says:

    You hit the nail right on the head Karen. This is so true. As a woman, I 100% relate to this need for “we” talk in order to feel connected with a man. Thank you so much for expressing it clearly in words, and for affirming that it is normal for women to feel that way.

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