Two years ago I interviewed 100 women to find out why they lost interest in sex in their long term relationships, and the conclusion was simple and fascinating.
Ninety-eight percent of the women interviewed explained that they lost interest when they felt the connection was lost. When I asked how they defined connection, 98 percent said that they connect by way of talking and sharing feelings and experiences.
Probably not a huge surprise, guys. But if you have ignored this fact, and now find yourself wondering what happened and why there’s a gulf between you, you might want to consider some heart to heart talking.
It’s not just talking, btw. These women described it as talking “about us.” Talking about a future, making plans, in other words “we” talk.” When you talk about the “we” a woman feels loved, cherished and closer to you, and feeling close equals feeling turned on.
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